First and for all, Happy Deepavali to all my Indian friends! :))
Specially like today, if not, my clique & I would have probably dress up and head down to Nithia's house for Deepavali celebration. But not this year, since that guy is away in Aussie doing his further study. Hurry up come back will you?! And seriously, you have got to start shaving man! You look pretty mess up now! HAHA!
And I can never thank enough for the holiday! I finally get to sit at home and do nothing. Okay, the word 'nothing' is seriously wrong. A cut out from my very own Facebook,
Di pagi hari holiday ini,
Orang India celebrate Deepavali.
Aku ingat boleh rest macam gini,
Tapi toilet aku pula kotor, eee.
Aku ah yang kene cuci.
Dah penat cuci toilet ingat dah boleh rest,
Mama masak nasi ayam, bau sungguh best!
Baru nak makan sebab perut pun dah lapar,
Sekali ayam tak ada, aku lah yang kene pergi pasar. — at Limbang Wet Market.
And it doesn't stop there because I had to the laundry, the dishes etc etc etc and the list just goes on. While my Sissy is happily out with her boyfriend and my brother, please horrr, cannot even harap one cent pun. I know I complain quite a bit, sound as if I am not sincere but.........I am....actually.....but....I'm so youngggggg (in denial), I didn't sign up for a full time housewife job yet.
Anyway, a friend mentioned "Seriously, I cannot ask for more if I have a girlfriend like you. Even when you're working like every other adult yet when I text you, you're always either doing the dishes, cooking, laundry, fold the clothes, clean the house, taking care of your mom or even go to the market. Like every man's dream, kahwin dengan aku sudah lah gini."
Before that, correction! I can go to the market to buy anything in the world but I swear I sucks at choosing fish. How in the world could anyone differentiate the different fishes. They all look the same and worse, they smell the same also. Zzz! So if I ever get married, I hope my future husband can help ease my burden with this. Thank you. HAHA! Otherwise, I've got to master down this skill of choosing fish from Mama. Lol!
And talking about marriage, there's just a few options of a guy that sometimes we will all tend to consider or rather prefer to be with. It's not playing hard to get or being choosy but it's just something to your very own liking, like your dream guy, your prince charming I say. And God willing, it may or may not happen. Sometimes, we may end up with our dream guy from the list, but sometimes we may end up with a prince charming who is the total opposite of our likings. :) Like they say, kita merancang, Tuhan yang tentukan. =)
Whereas for me, I prefer to be with a guy who is simple, not dress to please or try too hard. I prefer him to be a father & husband material but not materialistic. Most importantly, he loves/likes me for who I am and not for who I am not. He accept me whatever speciality and the flaws that I have because I will make sure I accept whatever speciality and flaws he has as well. He shouldn't club, drink or smoke because these are the few things that usually turn me off the most! I cannot imagine being married to a guy who clubs every night and come back home drunk or even worse smoking in the house like a chimney pot because I'm like a cigarette detector. I can SMELL people who smoke no matter how far you are.
My long distance auntie used to tell me that I have to find a guy that has a good income because coming from where I am now, she said me being with any guy tak standard. But I seriously don't give a hook, for as long he is responsible, mature and has a job. I mean it, a JOB. I don't care if he doesn't have a Diploma, Degree or whatever job he do (but must be Halal lah ah) even if it doesn't match up to my income, it DOESN'T MATTER. Anyway, who am I to judge people with standard or not because in Allah's eyes, we are all the same. :)
He doesn't have to be very very good looking or cute but just nice for my eyes to see. Haha! Because I would want to wake up to this just nice looking face next to me each morning when we're married. HEHE! And when I meant my eyes, it's really my eyes. I don't care if other people find him not good looking or whatever but for as long he is "good looking/cute" in my eyes, it shall remain. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
He can really talk but yet a good listener. The problem is, I talk a lot. I can talk non-stop so it would be good if both of us can talk yet listen as well, so conversation won't go dead. Plus, I really hope he will not be the only one talking and I'll be the only one listening because that bores me a lot too. Haha! And bad English turn me off. My English is not that perfect, so I don't want people with terrible English spoken to make mine even worse. HAHA!
A plus point if he is romantic since I'm head over heels over romance but if he is not, it doesn't matter. Someone who would be there for me when I need him. Who can make me smile yet know when to be serious. Someone who would share my joy, pain and laughter. Someone who loves my family & relatives.
Lastly, this! I don't want to be with any skinny guys or even super well built guys with 6 packs or what? They turn me off as well for a reason, I just don't know why. Haha! I know, this is the weirdest thing ever. If he is fat, I don't care but for as long he is around my size or slightly bigger than me, I'm fine. I don't know how to put it in words but there's just this particular size of a guy not thin, not too well built but just average slightly meaty but not too meaty turn me on the most. HAHAHA! ;)
I always always always prefer this, I always like guy who has a fair skin tone. I don't know, don't ask me why either. Probably it's because I am as well but seriously, I am not being racist here but Malay guys with fair skin tone just turn me on the most especially when he is cute. Yada yada yada yada yada da da da da!
YESSSSSSSSSSSSS! I'm working tomorrow but I won't share you the excitement why. Hopefully, my things will be delivered tomorrow. ;)
P.S: It's raining and I can't do my run, another day stuck at home. Zzz!
XOXO,
Princessazie Bella ♥
Elena Gilbert(:
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